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<\/a><\/p>\nFull time ministry looking after 5 churches, a partner with Bipolar, two teenage daughters and an illness which manifests itself in chronic pain and fatigue all led to a drain upon my ability to pray. I was literally too exhausted. However, I knew that what I needed most was that precious time in prayer with God. I knew that if I could recapture where I was at ordination that all would be well. \u201cWhen you seek me wholeheartedly, I will let you find me\u201d Jeremiah 29 a passage I reflected upon for years. I tried to recreate the pattern of my life which brought about that spiritual experience at Whitby all those years ago.<\/p>\n
However, my health continued to deteriorate to such an extent that I could hardly walk, I couldn\u2019t talk for long, I couldn\u2019t interact with other people, I couldn\u2019t go to church, I couldn\u2019t read and I couldn\u2019t PRAY. All would bring on excruciating headaches and nosebleeds. I had basically shut down. Now living on my own, I asked God what was the point of life for me? I spent my 61st<\/sup> birthday on a 9-day silent retreat with the Sisters at Whitby Retreat Centre contemplating God`s plan for me.<\/p>\n The first thing that struck me was the noise. It was quieter at home I thought. Whitby was a very special place for me. I used to love walking the beach at 6.00 am when it was empty, imagining being with Jesus on the shore. Sharing in the monastic way of life with rhythm and stillness soothed my soul. I couldn\u2019t do any of that, so I began to wonder if it was a mistake being there. After 2 days of excruciating pain and nosebleeds I contemplated going home. However, experience had taught me that God can bring something good out of even the worst situation if you only look for it. So, I stayed.<\/p>\n I listened to Thomas Merton`s book on contemplation in which he spoke of the masks we wear. Masks that act as barriers to our relationship with God and others. I then began to reflect on the Authentic me, what masks do I wear? Sister Helen had suggested a different way of prayer. DOODLE prayer. That is using drawing as a means of communicating one\u2019s thoughts and prayers. I so happened to have brought my pens and sketch pad with me. So off I \u00a0went.<\/p>\n As I looked at each of the many masks I wore and what each of those meant I came to a fuller understanding of myself in relationship to God and to\u00a0 others. So as mother, grandmother, priest, creative child of God there was one unifying factor. GAY. This was not some lifestyle choice but the essence of who I am, created by God, to relate to God and the world as I was made. Although not fully in the closet, so to speak, I was apologetic of who I am. I then decided to doodle pray the text I had been contemplating for 14 years. I had always assumed that to seek wholeheartedly meant fervently but what I now understood it to mean was that I was to seek God with all of me.<\/p>\n Every facet of who I am was to surrender to God. Not to subsume who I was but to celebrate and offer up with thanksgiving the being who I was. A child of God, created in love for love. I was equally loved as anyone else was by a God of unconditional love. I was to relate to the world as God created me.<\/p>\n So when I got home I did exactly that. I came back from Whitby full of the Holy Spirit and understood how they felt at the first Pentecost. I was on fire, feeling blessed, feeling whole, walking tall(well as tall as my 5 foot height \u00a0would let me, feeling I could achieve anything, and within a week I was healed of much which had brought me to a point of shutting down. I donned a rainbow ribbon around my clerical collar, started going back to church, went back on the plan and shared my testimony.<\/p>\n I continued to doodle my prayers looking at issues as well as bible passages. With healing I looked at what that looked and felt like. I had indeed been healed and restored but nothing is without purpose. I now knew after 14 years what God was calling me to do, where my ministry was to be focused. I had to shut down totally before I was able to hear God speak to me. A Damascus Road experience indeed. The scales fell off and I was able to clearly see the path God had for me. To be an advocate for all the marginalised whilst being openly me within the wider church.<\/p>\n Fast forward 8 years and I find myself Co-Chair of Methodist Women in Britain. I was asked to take part in the TV programme Villages by the Sea with Ben Robinson to speak about Primitive Methodism in Runswick Bay near Whitby. Due to the unpredictable weather, they were not sure if filming would be on the Tuesday or Wednesday. Ooh, I thought why not have a mini retreat before I formally take up my post. Rather than stay with the sisters I booked into an AirBnB, something I have not tried before. After a four-hour train journey and a long hike up the hill to my destination, I was shattered. I book a taxi to get to Runswick Bay the next day and go out again to find food. Finally, I fall into bed after hiking up the hill again. Sleep? You must be joking. Close to the harbour the seagulls don\u2019t sleep and this AirB&B is just a house with very noisy residents banging doors. With no food available I had to go out for each meal, up and down the steep hills. I came home a day early.<\/p>\n Retreat it was not. However, I did learn some lessons. 1. Be thankful always for what you have and not to concentrate on the negative. I had a warm bed with a roof over my head and enough money to buy food, unlike many in the world. 2. Don\u2019t try and recreate the past. \u201cNo man ever steps in the same river twice, for it\u2019s not the same river and he\u2019s not the same man\u201d (Heraclitus).<\/p>\n As I begin my journey with you as Co-Chair I am thankful for the opportunity of working with you. Being thankful for what has been but looking forward to new ways of being Methodist Women in Britain, I pray for God\u2019s guiding hand and the power of the Holy Spirit to lead us on.<\/p>\n Leonora (Lee)\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" As an ordained Anglican Priest my prayer life was centred around the daily offices of morning and evening prayer. I had used a variety of Offices from Roman Catholic, Celtic from the Northumbrian Community, Common Prayer and Franciscan. I loved the rhythm of prayer in the monastic tradition, marking points in the day with prayer. 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